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Community Culture - Details

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Assumptions about Members

Assumptions underlie Belief Systems. When assumptions are revealed, people may choose to shift their belief systems…

Community Members are:

  • Creative, thoughtful, trustworthy adults, capable of making important decisions1
  • Accountable and responsible for their decisions & actions
  • Unique & deeply human, with strengths and vulnerabilities
  • Want to use their talents and skills to make a positive contribution to the organization and the world.
  • Capable of profound love, with a need to love & be loved

Community Culture

​ [1] Trust breeds trust & fear breeds fear. We choose to assume others trustworthy unless proven otherwise.
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[2] When we are immersed in nature, we tend to slow down and find a deeper connection with ourselves and the world around us.

[3] Trust is the secret sauce of productive and joyful collaboration

Personal Development

If we want to listen to the wisdom & truth of our souls, we need to find moments to slow down and honor silence…​
​The inner harmony of the members is encouraged, supported, and recognized as the best way to create group harmony and the type of resonance that benefits the entire world through the actions that harmonized healthy humans are inspired to take.
​​The Community embraces a culture of personal development in line with Wisdom Traditions and Energy Cultivation / tranquility practices worldwide.1 Personal practices that promote unity and transcendence are embraced, encouraged, and include:
[1] Meditative or spiritual practices can help us tap into broader sources of wisdom, develop our intuitive capacities, and distance ourselves from self-centered needs.

  • Meditation
  • Yoga
  • Qi Gong
  • Tai Chi
  • Sacred Sound / Music
  • Ecstatic Dance
  • Breathwork
  • Peaceful engagement with nature2
  • Surfing
  • Gardening
  • Arts and crafts, such as Painting, sculpting, jewelry making, and other creative activities
  • Collaboration3 in silence
  • Story telling
  • prayer of any faith
  • & so much more...
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Community Environments

The Community strives for environments that are comfortable, lovely, personalized, healthy, cozy, & pleasant to be in. It highly values the health of its members, the earth and all of humanity.

Thinking globally and acting locally, it embraces permaculture, organic & biodynamic gardening, and healthy harmonious ecosystems on its land. Pre-existing sacred spaces are respected and protected, and new ones may be created. The peaceful presence of nature is valued, and lovely outdoor gathering spaces are nurtured.[1]

Decision Making & Collaboration

The Community prioritizes "What is the right thing to do" in its decision making process.1

The community recognizes that people are constantly learning by making decisions and seeking advice, and picking up skills and knowledge from working on projects.

The Community as a whole is pledged to the principles of cooperation & collaboration. When an organization truly lives for its purpose, there is no competition: Anybody that can help to achieve that purpose on a wider scale / more quickly is a friend, an ally, rather than a competitor. So if you then share your knowledge and information, things will change more quickly.2 Also, the more open you are about what you do, the more advantages come back to you because if you are open, people will receive you in friendlier ways.3

​The Community intends to go about fulfilling needs of the world (i.e. better housing & environmental solutions) by listening within. Members may develop deep / intuitive senses of what is worth pursuing… and people are free to act on what they sense is needed using the Advice Process, which enables the entire community to react creatively in the moment (in the same way that Living systems have the innate capacity to sense changes in their environment and to adapt from within).
[1] Transcending the primacy of profits: Profits will be the byproduct of a job well done, not a goal in and of itself.

[2] As Elon Musk put it when he published all of Tesla’s engineering architecture: (sic) “If you’re on a sinking ship and you build a better bucket, it may be in your best interests to share the design of that bucket.”

[3] Jos de Blok, founder of Buurtzorg

Community Building Games, Exercise, & Routines

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Regular gatherings occur that are less about decision making and more about celebrating. Music, dance, sharing food, and other group activities that build relationships and contribute to the sense of fun & enjoyment of each other’s presence are strongly encouraged.1
Community is made strong by the inter-relatedness of its members, which is best formed within the context of fun, enjoyable activities. While every Community is free and welcome to define its own set of Events, Holidays, exercises, and activities, here are a few that seem to work particularly well:​
  • Sharing meals2
  • Open classes hosted by members of the community on topics they wish to share.3,4
  • Story-telling,5 especially deeply personal stories (sharing moments that have shaped you, or reveal what you cherish)6 weaves a fabric of community relationships that creates resilience in times of crisis, resourcefulness in times of need. Story-telling can also be used to symbolically summarize & solve problems
  • Appreciations & Accomplishments,7 for example: "Gratitude Friday"8
  • To be considered: Internal currencies
  • Weekly dances, parties, Art Salons, jam sessions, potlucks (or all the above at once)
  • Reflective spaces: Community buildings or natural spaces dedicated to meditation, prayer, silence, emergence of truth, yoga, and other practices that enhance contemplation and quiet the mind.
  • Days of silence9, Days of Thankfulness, "Values Day"10, and other thematic days, such as "Pajama Day", "Blissmass",11 Community Easter Egg Hunt, New Year’s Eve Celebration,12 etc…
  • Starting every day with a brief and joyful moment (i.e. at breakfast), such as a song, "good or new" ritual (where everyone mentions something Good or New), or appreciations/gratitude for something: like saying Grace before the meal, but personal/communal/spiritual.
  • If meetings are used:13
    • starting each one with a ritual designed to calm the mind and create harmony within the group (such as singing, a moment of silence, prayer, or appreciations).
    • Closing each one with a feel-good ritual.
    • Using a harmonic resonator (such as properly tuned cymbals, chime or bell) to restore harmony when things grow tense.14
    • Empty chair practices15
    • Artistic collaboration during particularly large or difficult topics16
  • Periodically reconnecting with the Community’s Mission, Core Values, and Assumptions in as active and hands-on a way as possible
  • Retreats, camping trips, campouts, adventures
  • Collective visioning of the future that the Community wants to evoke
  • Thinking in terms of Stewardship rather than ownership
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[1] Communication tends to flow naturally during such events (without feeling pressured, heavy or required).

[2] “Since the dawn of time, we have evoked community by cooking and eating together”

[3] Classes may include, but are definitely not limited to topics directly relevant to the Community’s Purpose, Culture, Values or Projects

[4] Teaching classes also gives the member an opportunity to shine and be recognized for their expertise

[5] Storytelling is an essential element used to build community and create shared narratives since the dawn of time

[6] If we hope for deep, rich & meaningful relationships, we have to reveal more of who we are: the more you know about another person’s journey, the better you can understand the depth and richness of their humanity.

[7] Stand up & praise others publicly: Appreciating things you love is one of the best ways possible to encourage & engender more of it. 

[8] Gratitude Friday: Every Friday members may choose to send an email to the entire community recognizing and thanking another member or team for something that happened that week, or simply to share some good news. The first email invariably triggers a whole avalanche of thanking and recognition, which builds community and closes the week in a spirit of appreciation and gratitude.

[9] Days of Silence: A powerful practice that temporarily changes the entire communication landscape

[10] Values Day or Community Day: A celebration of the Community’s Birthday that includes activities designed to revisit the Values and Purpose of the organization & realign members with them, plus lots of fun – singing, dancing, etc… A day for members to celebrate and reaffirm their commitment to the community’s extraordinary culture.

[11] Blissmass: like Christmas, but focused on Bliss…

[12] Possible New Year's Eve Celebration themes: “What has gone really well this year that we might celebrate? To what extent have our accomplishments manifested the Community’s Purpose? What does the Community want from us in the year to come & what are we excited to embrace?”

[13] The priority becomes to ensure that everybody’s voice is heard, egos are kept in check, and no-one dominates.

[14] When the cymbals sing, everyone is silent until the last sound dies out, ideally reflecting whether their current position is in service to the community’s greater values.

[15] Every meeting includes an “Empty chair” which represents the Organization’s Life & Purpose. Anyone from the group can sit in at any time and listen in from the Organization’s perspective rather than their own.

[16] For one example of how Artistic Collaboration can be used as a facilitation tool, please see: Reinventing Organizations, pg 807 - 813

Fun

​Did we mention that this is going to be fun? Okay, what have we got so far: a bunch of excited, purpose driven people living together someplace beautiful & financially empowered to buy their own land. Plus living in a community whose system of governance empowers them to individually make their own decisions so long as they check in with the people their decisions may affect. 

There is an intentional commonality of interests, motivation and drives that inspires the community to exist, such as wanting to propagate environmental awareness and knowledge throughout the world. As if that wasn’t enough, there is a cultural environment that supports and encourages wisdom traditions and practices such as yoga, meditation, mindfulness, prayer, music, dance, movement, and supporting / educating children to appreciate, learn, and be able to do the same things.
And they may like to party. Communally. In Domes. & Out In Nature. With high-vibe music, dance, and other forms of movement, much of which they create themselves. And they like to eat really good food, ideally organic, ideally grown locally, ideally permacultured on their own land. So if ALL this sounds extremely fun to you, hop on board. If 90% sounds fun and the other 10% is like “I can live with that”, you’re probably still golden. ​

Interpersonal Relationships & Conflict Resolution:

General Principals:

​The Community respects the truth of its members and creates a safe space for it to be spoken. The community values and supports the language of the Heart, where people take ownership of their own emotions and reactions, speak in “I” statements, and can share honestly and non-judgmentally how they have been inspired, touched, puzzled, hurt, frustrated, or angered as a result of something another has said or done. The Community encourages people to come from a place of love and care, speak subjectively, and know that with the right presence and the right questions, interpersonal communications can be transformed into rituals of celebration and exploration of our selfhood and calling.

Code of Values & Ground Rules

Each Community will decide on its own Code of Values & Ground Rules to govern Interpersonal Relationships. Here is a good starting point:
  1. Individuals shall use the Advice Process prior to doing anything that affects other members of the community and take those effects into account when making their decisions.
  2. Individuals have unlimited power to enter into agreements with each other and shall honor those commitments with integrity. Agreements may define specific consequences of failing to honor the commitments being made.
  3. Individuals shall respect each other’s confidentiality & refrain from gossip or spreading conflict via enlisting support & building rival factions (negative triangulation)
  4. Be kind, open, and respectful: do not use force, intimidation or belittlement against each other…

The Appreciation System:

​One of the best ways to encourage more of a behavior that you like is to tell the person how much you appreciate it. This type of positive reinforcement creates pleasure and motivation to continue the good juju that you noticed in the person being appreciated. Therefore, DomeGaia Communities embrace a culture of appreciation. At least once a week, reach out and publicly appreciate someone for something via the online social network where everyone can see. Be grateful (great-full). In person, feel free to appreciate each other as often as you like. Look for things you appreciate in people who you are not yet close to. Realize that we are all interconnected and that the #1 law of energy is: the more you give, the more you receive. So appreciate those around you to let them know that their light is seen and they will shine even brighter. As will you…

Conflict Resolution

​Each Community will decide on its own Conflict Resolution Process, ideally one that restricts conflict to the conflicting parties and any mediators who assist them (so outsiders are not dragged in). 

Proactively Identifying & Preventing Conflict:

Communities may choose to engage in an annual ritual wherein they rate the quality of their interaction with other members. The result is a community-wide “heat map” which reveals which members *may* want to (but are not required to) engage in a little assisted relationship improvement

Coaching, Mediation, & Expertise

​The talent pool of DomeGaia Communities reaches beyond a single community to embrace all of the Sister Communities, within which expertise exists. Members can reach out throughout the DomeGaia Communities Network via the online tools for skills such as Coaching, Mediation, or Expertise in specific areas, which are available as a Skills Interchange between communities. 
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